Love

Its an emotions that is said to be the ultimate emotions...its actually one common factor that is present in all species in our planet whether it is a lion wooing his lioness or a man expressing his love to a woman..it is same all around you...but with love also comes a lot of other emotions...like envy, hate, passion, obsession,fun, happiness, laughter...if u go deep down to understand love, u will see its actually a mixture of lot of positive and negative emotions life fun, happiness, passion etc...is your positive one and similarly hate, envy, insecurity is your negative ones..it is very difficult to know why it is so..maybe because as the learned say " There is nothing more important in life than love is"..It is the ultimate emotion without it any man, woman, animal, insect life is incomplete...so i believe everyone should fall in love to know what it is all about...
So when loves leaves, u feel vacuum that everything is finished, you want to leave everything and do nothing...it breaks ur heart...it makes you feel unwanted....But here is the split side i feel dont give up my friends as love never leaves you..it is alwys there is in some form you need to identify them whether its through your through your child's laughter or your parents care..you need to catch hold of them and you will feel Love is back in your life...as somebody said " After every fall there is a rise" so people out there who feels they hv lost their love think twice as it is down the corner with some other form to be embraced...so love never hurts its just LOVES

HATE

Hate has a funny meaning..they say hate is just the opposite of love..is it true..i beg to differ
....Hate as a phenomenon only happens when there is too much of love for the person because then only you start expecting too much and end up being frustrated ,angry and ultimately hating that thing or person.
Because otherwise you never hate anybody whom you dont know or care about...but hate only comes once you know somebody too well.......
Funnily if the person who hates the other only could have thought so in this manner , then there would not be any hatred at all...

And if you see this hatred in a global platform....see us we are indians and there are our neighbour pakisthanis..in all probabilty we hate each other why???
Not because we dont care but on contrary we are similar in our ways, our culture,our thinking......so we expect a lot from each other and end up hating each other...

It is actually sad with the amount of knowledge we have and the understanding we have we should overcome this emotion completely......but somehow we fall flat and succumb to it....

i personally try my best not to do so..sometimes i cant stop it but then i start thinking why it all started because i like that person too much and expect too much...and then end up being dissappointed....why not give it one more chance ? As the starting point of hate is always love/like......
So lets experience that more than hating about it because think about it , you devote the same amount of time cursing him/her then loving him/her and what will you get at the end...
Nothing just bruises that wont repair for the rest of your life...
But if you would have loved/like that person the same time you would get not only the same thing back but with that comes the goodness in terms of relationship, friendship and long lasting happiness....isn't it more rewarding...
So think aboout it guys next time when you want to hate somebody ..love is just behind it to take the first step...

Riddler

Creativity

The word Creativity has a lot of ambiguity in it. In dictionary it means" it is the ability or power to create something completely new or original"...well that is also what i thought the meaning was when i joined an ad agency, well infact i dumped a job in a creative section thinking that man i wont be able to think everyday new things then i will get jacked and ultimately get sacked....but i didnot knew one thing creative also means getting inspired from other original works .......or maybe you cant think of ideas in that case you can look different thts why u might see people in ponytails , weird hairdos, something to potray they are different ...........or talk about social or marxist movement but have wine in between but that is not hypocracy for them but it is intellectual converstaion..i find it quite funny and annoying ...anyhow being in advertising i often have to judge creativity how effective it is ...i alwys believed the more simple the idea is the more effective it is.....and i also beleive that creativity is not just for the selected few everybody around you is creative..i think a mother who makes a unique dress for her daughter for a nature day function is as creative as a Creative director in a leading advertising agency ..or a brilliant storywriter or a wonderful painter...so guys Creativity has no boundaries or people or group or society it is about being yourself in your true sense...........................................
.....BEING ORIGINAL

Riddler

"Something"

Start is always the most toughest thing to do.....you always want to start with a bang...but in all probability it doesnot happen...i thought writing a blog is no big deal just write something and post it...but something itself suggest a lot of things..its like " i want to do something with my life"," I want to do something with my relationship"...so something its not just anything.....similarly i just donot want to write anything but something ...is it too cryptic to understand..maybe it is..thts why i like to be called " The Riddler".
The word " Something " is also very haunting like " Something is out there", " Somethings can never be explained"...So "Something" makes a lot of sense when said in context...

So i also promise one thing every time i write next on blogs i will write about " Something " which is important and means " Something" to everyone...

"Riddler"