Hate has a funny meaning..they say hate is just the opposite of love..is it true..i beg to differ
....Hate as a phenomenon only happens when there is too much of love for the person because then only you start expecting too much and end up being frustrated ,angry and ultimately hating that thing or person.
Because otherwise you never hate anybody whom you dont know or care about...but hate only comes once you know somebody too well.......
Funnily if the person who hates the other only could have thought so in this manner , then there would not be any hatred at all...
And if you see this hatred in a global platform....see us we are indians and there are our neighbour pakisthanis..in all probabilty we hate each other why???
Not because we dont care but on contrary we are similar in our ways, our culture,our thinking......so we expect a lot from each other and end up hating each other...
It is actually sad with the amount of knowledge we have and the understanding we have we should overcome this emotion completely......but somehow we fall flat and succumb to it....
i personally try my best not to do so..sometimes i cant stop it but then i start thinking why it all started because i like that person too much and expect too much...and then end up being dissappointed....why not give it one more chance ? As the starting point of hate is always love/like......
So lets experience that more than hating about it because think about it , you devote the same amount of time cursing him/her then loving him/her and what will you get at the end...
Nothing just bruises that wont repair for the rest of your life...
But if you would have loved/like that person the same time you would get not only the same thing back but with that comes the goodness in terms of relationship, friendship and long lasting happiness....isn't it more rewarding...
So think aboout it guys next time when you want to hate somebody ..love is just behind it to take the first step...
Riddler
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You hate someone whom you really wish to love, but whom you cannot love. Perhaps he himself prevents you. That is a disguised form of love. - Sri Chinmoy
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